Ep 17: The Witching Hour Explained: What Mums Need to Know

Episode Description

Ever feel like you're losing your mind when your baby starts screaming at 5 p.m. every day? You're not alone. This is the "witching hour," and in this episode, we're diving deep into what it is, why it happens, and how you can survive it. We'll share practical tips for soothing your baby, coping strategies for you, and stories from a mum who has been there with both her kids. Tune in to feel less alone and more empowered.

Episode Summary

This episode serves as a survival guide for parents experiencing the daily stress of the witching hour. We begin by defining what the witching hour is for babies, explaining that it’s a normal developmental phase, typically occurring between 2 weeks and 4 months of age. We then explore the reasons why it happens, including the development of the circadian rhythm, sensory overload, and natural dips in parental cortisol levels in the evening. The discussion extends to how the witching hour evolves in toddlers and preschoolers, manifesting as tantrums and meltdowns. We provide a comprehensive set of strategies for managing this period, from baby-wearing and white noise for infants to "power hour" boxes and reset routines for older children. The episode also emphasizes the importance of parental self-care, offering practical tips for creating support systems and managing your own well-being during these intense hours.

Key Insights

  • The witching hour is a normal developmental phase in babies, typically resolving by 3-4 months.
  • Biological factors like circadian rhythm development, sensory overload, and hunger contribute to evening fussiness.
  • The witching hour evolves with age, presenting as tantrums and meltdowns in toddlers and preschoolers.
  • Practical strategies for babies include baby-wearing, white noise, and getting outdoors.
  • For older children, creating special activity boxes and implementing reset routines can be effective.
  • Parental self-care is crucial; creating a support system and practicing self-compassion are key.
  • Communicating with your partner and creating a 'tap out' system can help manage stress and preserve your relationship.

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Lucy Dalton

Mummy, Nurse and Podcaster

A passionate nurse and devoted mummy, Lucy brings her wealth of experience and heartfelt stories to the Real Mummy Podcast. Join her as she inspires and empowers fellow parents with relatable, real-life tales that resonate deeply and offer genuine support.